COVER STORY

THE ‘F’ WORD

Unpacking forgiveness in an age of rage
By Rob Harley

At the start of 2025 I realised that I had developed a fascination, in my 51 years as a journalist, for one subject perhaps above all others. It’s all about a word that starts with ‘F’. That word is forgiveness.

I have seen it play out in so many places around the world, and … well, it kind of intrigues me! Letting go of the pain of mistreatment, insult, serious injury, or even the murder of someone you love. It is a dilemma that has occupied humankind for the ages.

Easy phrases trip off the tongue … “forgive and forget” or, more commonly these days, “forgive them, but never forget what they did to you, lest you become a victim again.”

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